My Mother-in-Law Ordered Me to Wake Up at 4 A.M. to Cook Thanksgiving for 30 — So I Left at 3 A.M. Instead

Potluck style with everyone contributing
• Isabella makes 2 pies instead of 4 desserts
• 4 hours of shared cooking vs. 10+ hours alone
• Everyone included in conversation, not just consumption
Value gained: Rest, respect, and actual participation in the holiday